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The Relationship Design Game

The Relationship Design Game invites you to explore your true desires and rethink conventional relationship norms.

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With this game, you’ll have the freedom to design relationships based on what you and your partners genuinely want - no scripts, no assumptions.

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In a world where society shapes how we connect and relate, this tool empowers you to build more conscious, free, intentional, and authentic connections.

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Bilingual Game
English + Portuguese

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Bilingual Game
English + Portuguese

The Sexuality
Design Game

The Sexuality Design Game invites participants to reflect on and talk about their desires, boundaries, needs, beliefs, and ideas across different aspects of sexuality.

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It’s designed to spark self-awareness, encourage meaningful reflection, and open up honest communication.

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By challenging conventions and questioning norms, this playful yet powerful game helps demystify sexuality and create a more conscious relationship with others, with your own body, and with pleasure.

FAQ

How to play?

In these games, you’ll explore various scenarios and statements about relationships. Simply draw a card and choose one of three responses: "Yes" if you agree, "No" if you disagree, or "Let’s Talk" if you're unsure and want to discuss further. Afterward, discuss your answers with the other players (or reflect on them if playing solo) to explore different perspectives and deepen your understanding. Arrange the cards on the table according to your choices. By the end of the game, you’ll have a visual map of your values, preferences, desires, and boundaries.

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Who to Play With?

Play the game with anyone you want to design an intimate relationship with. It’s suitable for both new and long-standing relationships, whether monogamous or non-monogamous, as long as participants are open to honest communication. You can also play with friends and family! These games move beyond small talk and spark deeper conversations about love, sex, and relationships. And… it’s also perfect for playing alone! This gives you the opportunity to reflect on and better understand yourself, discovering what you truly believe.

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Who Created It?

It’s me! Mariana. I’ve spent much of my life questioning why life, and especially relationships, have to fit into a mold that doesn’t serve us. And, as someone who isn’t particularly extroverted or communicative by nature, I realized I needed practical, easy-to-use tools to facilitate conversations that would free me from those molds. That’s why I created these games! I’m a designer, and I developed these tools in collaboration with psychologists and people from various fields to ensure they are, at the same time, constructive and inclusive.

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Is It Sustainable?

We're trying our best! The games are consciously produced in Portugal to support local businesses and reduce transportation impact. All shipping packaging materials are recycled and while we haven’t eliminated plastic entirely, we avoid it as much as possible to stay eco-friendly.

Oh, and all deliveries within our local area are made by bicycle!

We believe good relationships are built on respect and care, and one of the best ways to show that is by taking care of the planet.

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What Languages are Available? Can I Buy it Worldwide?

Both The Relationship Design Game and The Sexuality Design Game are bilingual: English and Portuguese.

 

And yes, we ship worldwide!

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COLLABS & PARTNERSHIPS

Cara Trancada
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The Relationship Design Game

A set of illustrations by Cara Trancada, created to normalize and celebrate the diversity of relationships, dynamics, and bodies advocated by The Relationship Design Game.

The Relationship Design Games x Cara Trancada
The Relationship Design Games x Cara Trancada Tote Bag
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