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The Relationship Design Games invite people to consciously co-create their relationship dynamics. Inspired by relationship anarchy, we believe relationships should be defined by what people involved truly want, not labels. Our games help set boundaries, express desires, adjust expectations, and establish agreements beyond social norms.

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Learn about our latest news and collaborations. We are always open to new partnerships, so if you have an idea for a creative collaboration, want to resell the game, or become an affiliate, get in touch with us here.

Rethink Relationships Meetup Berlin (EN)

On Wednesday, February 18th, I’m inviting you to join for an evening of connection, play, and reimagining relationships beyond the scripts and power structures of monogamy, heteronormativity, and patriarchy.

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The Relationship Design Game x Tessia Berlin

We’re so happy to announce our new partnership with Tessia. Tessia is an incredible jewelry maker and the owner of one of the coolest stores in Berlin. Alongside her own beautifully crafted jewelry, she curates a thoughtful selection of work from other creators. The shop is located at Oderberger Straße 40, and from now on, you’ll also find our Relationship Design Games there!

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The Relationship Design Game x PolyPortugal (PT)

O Seed Relating dinamizado por @the_relationship_design_game é uma atividade onde, através das cartas dos jogos, são lançadas conversas sobre comunidade, amor, sexo e relacionamentos. Em formato de speed dating, mas livre de expectativas de criar conexões românticas e/ou sexuais, os participantes têm a oportunidade de conhecer novas pessoas, partilhar as suas perspectivas pessoais e explorar ideias e possibilidades que vão para além do guião social hetero-mono-normativo.Esta atividade decorrerá na 5ª Festa Não-Mono e Queer do coletivo PolyPortugal, onde haverá também performances, bancas, música e muito mais para explorar. As inscrições são feitas a partir do link na bio do instagram do @polyportugal.

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The Relationship Design Game x PolyFest

On November 22, 2025, we took part in the first Poly Fest Berlin, a one-day event celebrating International Polyamory Day. The festival brought together talks on polyamory and consensual non-monogamy (CNM) in today’s world, workshops on navigating conflict and jealousy, as well as games and moments of collective celebration around openness and connection.

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The Relationship Design Game x Caldas Late Night

We had the pleasure of participating in Caldas Late Night as part of Casa Não, a project focused on awareness and intervention against sexual and/or gender-based violence at cultural events. In addition to our stand, we took part in the collaborative exhibitions with an interactive piece that invited people to share their thoughts on shame and pleasure anonymously. We also organized a “kind of speed dating” activity in which participants reimagined relationship dynamics.

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The Relationship Design Game x AEFPIE-UL

With this partnership, students from the Faculty of Psychology at the University of Lisbon can access the games through the Student Association of the Faculty of Psychology and Institute of Education - AEFPIE-UL.

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